Tracy Baker-Lawrence

Relationship & Personality Psychologist
Enhance & Protect Your Love for Life

About My Work

Tracy’s mission is to bring a new transformative methodology to couples to protect love early and prevent hurt in long term relationships.

When it comes to Love in our primary relationships it is too precious to leave to chance.

A shared life requires accurate understanding and shared intention from the start.
The pain and suffering of misunderstanding, misattunement, unexamined patterns and
wrong assumptions impact the quality of our relationships and lives profoundly… restricting our life force, limiting our growth, and our capacity to contribute the best of ourselves to the world. Having worked with 100s of couples at the point of separation Tracy is urgently wanting to be preventative.

By bringing trauma informed Enneagram insight and compassionate communication into embodied, relational practice, Tracy helps couples to attune to one another, building capacity to respond to one another through accurate understanding of their inner worlds and unique vulnerabilities to support each other’s growth into wholeness.

Tracy developed the ATTUNED methodology and Your Couple D.N.A.™ method to quickly demystify couples unique Dynamics – based upon each partner’s Neurobiology (hardwiring & personality) and their capacity to Attune to one another. Uncovering how these factors interact, alongside shared knowledge of their life experiences, conditioning, wounds and unmet needs, we can empower couples with the insights they need to protect their love from the start, and prevent painful recurring Infinity Traps. Working with the ‘why’ – the root cause of relationship pain, partners come to accurately understand and fully appreciate each other and their differences, transforming potential blame and projection into healing one another.

Unlike any other relationship enhancement work, which tends to be generic, this method is uniquely tailored to the nature and nurture of each partner. The method is based on the 4 principles of functional medicine & effective early intervention: it is personalised, predictive, preventative and prescriptive.

Current pre-marriage programs are helpful but insufficient….as they don’t address the unconscious elelments that can undo a marriage, nor how two unique nervous systems and defence structures interact, so are not able to be predictive to be preventative. Hence this new methodology.

What I Offer
Couple D.N.A Insight Sessions (2–3 hrs)
A focused deep-dive session designed to help couples understand their relationship dynamics, communication patterns, and emotional triggers. Ideal for gaining clarity and immediate insights.
Discover Your Couple D.N.A – Early Intervention Program (9–12 hrs)
A structured program for committed couples who want to build a strong foundation early. Helps identify hidden patterns, strengthen emotional connection, and prevent long-term conflicts.
Alchemy of Love Workshop Webinars (1.5 hrs over 4 weeks)
A guided online experience that teaches couples how to nurture, enhance, and protect their love. Short, powerful weekly sessions with practical tools for lasting intimacy.
Couple Inner Retreats (Weekend Experience)
An immersive weekend retreat combining relationship work with relaxation. Includes overnight stay, spa indulgence, and celebratory moments like champagne—designed for deep reconnection and renewal.
What you’ll experience when you work with Tracy Baker
Divorce Is Often Misunderstood
Statistics show high divorce rates — 50% of first marriages, 63% of second, and 73% of third. But these numbers rarely reflect irreconcilable differences. More often, they reveal misattunement, unmet needs, and emotional projection between partners.
Addressing the Root Cause of Separation
This method focuses on understanding the deeper dynamics that cause disconnection. By uncovering the unique patterns within each couple pairing, the program works as a preventative approach rather than a reactive solution.
Building a More Connected World
To create safer, more loving relationships, we must learn to attune accurately and compassionately — both to ourselves and to others. Emotional awareness is the foundation of lasting intimacy.
Insights from Real Couples
Hundreds of couples who discovered their Couple D.N.A share a common reflection: they wish they had understood each other more deeply earlier. That early clarity could have prevented years of confusion, hurt, and emotional distance.

About Tracy Baker Lawrence

Tracy Baker Lawrence
Tracy Baker-Lawrence is a Relationship and Personality Psychologist and Certified Enneagram Teacher with over 15 years of advanced training in Australia and the U.S. She is the founder of The Insight Agency, a B1G1 “business for good” dedicated to transformative relationship work rooted in compassion, science, and integrity.
A leading Australian personality expert, Tracy has conducted more than 2,000 clinical interviews, using a gold-standard assessment method that identifies personality patterns through narrative, body language, and motivational cues. Her work blends temperament, neurobiology, and the Enneagram to map how beliefs, attention, and core needs shape relational dynamics.
Tracy spent four years developing a PhD-level research matrix explaining predictable interpersonal differences across Enneagram patterns. She is also the creator of Your Couple D.N.A.™ and the B.O.T.H. Model™, a therapeutic approach that helps couples understand their inner worlds, reduce reactivity, and build sustainable intimacy through intentional, attuned connection.
She presents internationally, facilitates live interview panels, and trains therapists in ethical, clinically grounded Enneagram application. Tracy is currently writing a book on Couple D.N.A.™, offering what she believes is the missing piece in relationship literature: a clear explanation of what drives partners’ reactions and how real healing becomes possible.

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